Subject: RE: A VERY VERY IMPORTANT QU3ESTION
Antonio – thanks for the feedback. They are only obvious to people who have studied NLP and hypnosis.
To answer your question, I have never had that response from a woman nor have I ever heard of anyone else getting that kind of response to the poems.
I suppose there are women who just aren’t into it (my ex-wife for instance) and who might have that kind of attitude. The vast majority of women will really be charmed that you are doing it.
And, if you suspect she might not be receptive, you should preface the reading by saying, “I found these poems on the internet and some of the guys say women really love them. Personally I don’t get it and I was wondering what you thought of them.” Should she ever say “That sucks”, you can say that you weren’t sure what was supposed to be so special, either. Just blame it on the author (me).
Of course, you don’t have to mention NLP or hypnosis at all. It’s just poetry. I have had a number of women who just want me to ‘talk” to them, because I use nlp stories and patterns and they love it because they love the way it makes them feel.
All I can say is just get into a certain amount of rapport before you use the poems. I can’t imagine walking up to a woman on the street and blurting them out. I have used them on women who I was slow dancing with, even though it was the first time I had ever met the woman.
No worries – they will love the stuff, and love you for sharing it with them! If not, move on to find someone who is more receptive and romantic. That is the kind of lover you want, anyhow. Not some hard-ass sarcastic ball buster.
Phil
From: antonio
Sent: Tuesday, January 19, 2010 12:32 PM
Subject: A VERY VERY IMPORTANT QU3ESTION
HELLO PHILL THANKS AGAIN FOR YOUR POEMS I HAVE THIS QUESTION I WANT TO MAKE TO YOU, AREN'T THESE SO OBVIOUS, AND BY BEING LIKE THIS, AREN'T THEY COUNTER - PRODUCTIVE I MEAN BY READING ONE POEM TO A WOMAN, SHE WILL SAY SOMETHING LIKE WELL, DON'T READ THAT TO ME, WHAT YOU'RE TELLING TO ME DOESN'T MAKE SENSE, OR SOMETHING LIKE THIS
EVEN THOUGH I HAVE THIS QUESTION , I TOTALLY AND COMPLETLEY BELIEVE IN THE POWER OF NLP. BUT THEN AGAIN JUST ANSWER THIS QUESTION.
I AM VERY VERY INTERESTED IN YOUR WORK THAT'S WHY I AM ASKING.
ANTONIO

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